Book Review: Intuitive Eating, A Revolutionary Program That Works

You eat when you’re bored. You eat when you’re stressed. You eat when you’re out having fun. You may eat for any number of reasons, none of which include hunger. In fact, maybe you don’t even know what hunger feels like.

This is what happens when we have ridden the roller coaster of diet mania. Dependent on the latest news of what we should and shouldn’t eat in the name of losing weight, so many of us no longer know how to listen to our bodies. Going back and forth between restricting and binging, it’s like our body’s signals have gone hay wire, and we need nothing short of a “re-booting” to set things straight again. The problem is, how do we re-boot? In other words, how do we regain that ability — one that most of us probably had at some point in our lives, maybe as long ago as when we were kids — to listen to our bodies and eat intuitively? It probably won’t surprise you when I say the answer is in a book.

Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Program That Works was written by two Registered Dietitians, Evelyn Tribole, and Elyse Resch, and is a highly accessible, well-written book outlining the process for getting in touch with your body and learning what we knew as children — how to eat intuitively. Most of us once had the ability to listen to our body’s signals, eating when we’re hungry, and stopping when we’ve had enough. We seem to lose that ability, whether its through the introduction of food as a coping mechanism, comforting us when we’re hurt, sad, bored, lonely, stressed, angry, etc., or through the the black and white view of food that we come to have through the pressures of society to be thin, or, most likely, both.

Intuitive Eating outlines a process for regaining the ability to listen to our bodies and comfortably trust ourselves with food, as well as learning move for the sake of feeling good — not burning off last night’s desert. Though you may have been riding the diet roller coaster for so long that you believe it is actually impossible for you to ever learn to intuitively eat, I would suggest that the principles proposed by Tribole and Resch go to the core of the dieter’s mentality, and bit by bit break down the reasons why diets inevitably don’t and won’t work.

After going through why your diets continue to fail you, the book describes different types of eaters and helps you determine which group you fall into. By understanding what kind of eater you are, you can begin to chip away at the barriers you have to listening to your body by following the ten principles of intuitive eating:

Princple 1: Reject the Diet Mentality
Princple 2: Honor Your Hunger
Princple 3: Make Peace with Food
Princple 4: Challenge the Food Police
Princple 5: Feel Your Fullness
Princple 6: Discover the Satisfaction Factor
Princple 7: Cope with Your Emotions Without Using Food
Princple 8: Respect Your Body
Princple 9: Exercise — Feel the Difference
Princple 10: Honor Your Health — Gentle Nutrition

By highlighting the principles here, I am in no way offering a substitute for the book. Each process is supported by examples and methods for internalizing the concept. Intuitive Eating is not a quick-fix, solve-all-your-food problems, self-help book. It offers a common sense approach to changing your relationship with food and your body, allowing you to live a life not dominated by thoughts of food and your body size, but instead filled with the pleasures food and your body can provide you.

If you are looking for yet another way to lose 10, 20, or 50 pounds before your next event, perhaps you are not ready for this book. But if you are ready to start living your life free from self deprivation and self loathing, then this book is for you.