Finish the Race
April 13, 2010 by Guest Author
Filed under Mind & Body, Self Esteem & Motivation
By C. Reed Weber
When she was a year old, Aimee Mullins, born missing fibula in both legs, underwent a double amputation and was fitted with a set of prosthesis limbs. She learned to walk with her prosthesis and began playing competitive sports early and aggressively.
While attending college, a track coach encouraged Aimee to join the Georgetown University Women’s Track Team and to compete not as a ‘disabled runner’ but as an individual. During Aimee’s first major competition one of her sprinting legs came loose. She was mortified and, fearing failure, tried to drop out of her next race.
She begged her coach not to make her compete: “Please, don’t make me do this. I can’t do this in front of all those people. My legs will come off!”
He replied: “So what if your legs falls off? You pick it up, you put the damn thing back on, and finish the race!”
Real life is not about winning or losing. You can never be a failure as long as you are giving it your best.
Pick up your leg. Finish the race.
C.Reed Weber has been writing since she first discovered an unguarded pencil and continues today as a freelance journalist and grant writer. Living Beyond the Worst has been adapted from Happy Thoughts, a collection of email columns she wrote for friends and family during 2008-2009. Weber is currently working on developing Happy Thoughts into a book. You can purchase mini-volumes of Happy Thoughts from her Etsy site.





See Aimee Mullins’ TED talks too! She’s rather inspiring. Each video is about 15-20 minutes.
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/aimee_mullins_on_running.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/aimee_mullins_prosthetic_aesthetics.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/aimee_mullins_the_opportunity_of_adversity.html
The last one may be particularly meaningful for the VV community.
_Charles
Thanks for sharing, and yes, I’ve seen the last one and agree that it’s perfect for the VV community. I missed the other ones, so I will definitely go check them out! I am dying to meet her and interview her one day.
I love this post! How incredibly inspiring!
I actually linked to it on yesterday’s post on my body image blog, Weightless, which you can check out here: http://blogs.psychcentral.com/weightless/2010/04/20-more-inspiring-ways-to-boost-your-body-image/
OMG: “pick up your leg and finish the race!” what a great coach, and what a courageous woman. I followed this link 20 Inspiring Ways to Boost Your Body Image and realized its been far too long since I stopped by your inspiring blog!