Living Beyond the Worst

By C.Reed Weber

Everyone has at least one Worst-Case Scenario tucked away and most of us live in fear of the day when that scenario — The Worst — will be played out. Maybe it involves a career choice, or perhaps loss of employment. It may involve family members or loved ones. It could be a single incident, or first in a chain of events that will bring you to your knees. It doesn’t really matter what you fear, the fear itself is enough to make you miserable.

But should The Worst happens, you may be surprised to discover life continues on. Birds sing. Clouds float. Children laugh. People cry. The Worst has happened, now what? What won’t happen is life will not stop. It may seem to you as if life should stop, but amazingly everything keeps going right along. The sun rises every morning and the stars shine every night. It may seem to you Clouds of Gloom rain everywhere you go, but soon you will realize only you are getting wet. Then you’ll find yourself in the position of being “outside” things for a time, but eventually you’ll be able to pick up the threads of your life and continue on. You will wake up. You will grocery shop. You will eat meals. You will talk with people. It happens very slowly, but as days pass you’ll find you are living again. Living is what you are supposed to be doing while you are tromping around on this planet!

My father once told me: “Be prepared for The Worst, but Live for the Best.” I think that sums it up nicely.

C.Reed Weber has been writing since she first discovered an unguarded pencil and continues today as a freelance journalist and grant writer. Living Beyond the Worst has been adapted from Happy Thoughts, a collection of email columns she wrote for friends and family during 2008-2009. Weber is currently working on developing Happy Thoughts into a book. You can purchase mini-volumes of Happy Thoughts from her Etsy site.